Femininity is good. But “the dose makes the poison.”
This is why maintaining frame control and passing shit tests is so difficult for most men. We’ve been trained from our youth to seek female approval.
This is made doubly difficult because men naturally pity women. This pity is good, but it can be easily manipulated.
Be mindful of your reaction time between feeling pity and responding.
The “nice” approach isn’t always advantageous.
Pity is a choice.
And your woman has no authority over your life.