Read a sad story over at F My Life:
Today, my wife walked in on me changing and apologized. That’s how sexless our marriage is. FML
Women will frequently do and say things that deeply wound a man’s self-esteem without even realizing what they’re doing. She thinks she’s being “nice.”
This is why the first step to “getting your balls back” is to remove your ego attachment to your wife. You want to get to the point where it doesn’t matter how she responds to you. You’re becoming a better man to please God, not to please your wife.
The next time she makes a hurtful comment, just look at her with pity and think (or say aloud) “You have no idea what’s in store for you, my little kitten.”