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Since I know you’re curious…

How often do other married men want to have sex with their wife?

Someone posted this question over at the Talk About Marriage forum. It got a lot of response.

The general consensus seems to be 2-3 times a week. Some wanted it every day.

Rarely did I see any man express satisfaction with once a week or less.

Most Christian marriage advice I’ve heard seems to hold once a week as the minimal standard of a healthy marriage. I think most guys feel “selfish” asking for anything more.

This is probably why a lot of Christian men worry about having a “sex addiction.”

On a side note, this got me thinking:

We know that the Apostle Paul says not to deprive one another except when agreed upon in order to have time to pray.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve never had so much sex that I didn’t have time to pray.

Makes a man wonder…

Either I’m not having enough sex or I’m not praying enough. Maybe both.