Every woman craves intensity in the bedroom.
King Solomon understood this. He gives the following instruction to his students:
Let her breasts satisfy you at all times;
The English word “satisfy” doesn’t quite do the expression justice. Especially when the word’s been twisted to mean “just be content with what she gives you.”
The Hebrew word is ravah, which has a much stronger connotation than “satisfy.”
Seeing the word in a different context should make it clear:
For this is the day of the Lord GOD of hosts, a day of vengeance, that he may avenge him of his adversaries: and the sword shall devour, and it shall be satiate and made drunk [ravah] with their blood…
Obviously, you shouldn’t be violent towards your wife. But the intensity of your approach to her body should be similar to that of a vengeful warrior with a thirst for blood. Do not stop until your “enemy” is completely devoured.